Kamar yadda ka'idodin aure da saki suka canza a cikin shekarun da suka gabata, haka ma hoton su ya kasance a talabijin, kwanan nan a kan shirye-shiryen kamar George & Tammy, Mafi Abubuwan Da Yafi da Saki.
A ranar 26 ga Janairu, 1992, Hillary Clinton ta yi hira da Minti 60.Mawakiyar Cabaret Jennifer Flowers kwanan nan ta bayyana ra'ayoyinta game da dangantakar da ta dade da dan takarar shugaban kasa a lokacin Bill Clinton.Zaune take akan kujera kusa da mijinta, Hillary tana sanye cikin riga da hijabi, kuma yanayinta na farko yana nuni da 'yancinta.
"Ni ba karamar mace ba ce zaune a nan, ina tsaye kusa da mutumina kamar Tammy Wynette," ta gaya wa mai tambayoyin.
Kamar yadda ta sanya shi a cikin buɗaɗɗen wasiƙa, Wynette ta kasance almara na kiɗan ƙasa a lokacin tare da bugu na #1, kuma ta fusata.“Mista.Clinton, kuna zagin kowace mace da namiji da ke son wannan waƙar,” ta rubuta."Na yi imani kun ɓata wa kowane mai son kiɗan ƙasa na gaskiya da kowane 'mai zaman kansa' laifi."
Tabbas, wannan babban abin mamaki ne.Clinton tana tsaye kusa da mutuminta akan wannan kujera mai kirim.Har yanzu ta tsaya a gefe.Duk da abin da wasiƙarta za ta iya ba da shawara, Wynette ta zo Nashville a matsayin uwa ɗaya kuma ta sami saki biyu da ɗaya, amma bai yi ba.
Tarihin Wynette - kiɗa, aure - an sake farfado da shi a cikin "George & Tammy," taƙaitaccen jerin shirye-shirye, wanda aka watsa akan Showtime, wanda taurari Jessica Chastain a matsayin Wynette da Michael Shannon a matsayin mijinta na uku, tauraron ƙasar George Jones. Tarihin Wynette - na kiɗa, aure - an sake farfado da shi a cikin "George & Tammy," taƙaitaccen jerin shirye-shirye, wanda aka watsa akan Showtime, wanda taurari Jessica Chastain a matsayin Wynette da Michael Shannon a matsayin mijinta na uku, tauraron ƙasar George Jones. Labarin Wynette - kiɗa, aure - an ta da shi a cikin jerin iyakacin George & Tammy akan Showtime, wanda ke nuna Jessica Chastain a matsayin Wynette da Michael Shannon a matsayin mijinta na uku, tauraron kiɗan ƙasa George Jones. Labarin Wynette - kiɗan, aure - ya sake fitowa a cikin jerin iyakancewar Showtime George & Tammy, wanda taurari Jessica Chastain a matsayin Wynette da Michael Shannon a matsayin mijinta na uku, tauraron kiɗan ƙasa George Jones. A cikin ƙayyadaddun bayanin aure da saki, "George & Tammy" ɗaya ne daga cikin nunin kwanan nan - HBO na sake yin "Scenes From A Marriage," "Fleishman yana cikin Matsala," "Mafi Kyau," "Rarraba" - sake tunani da rikitar da wakilcin yadda aure zai kare da abin da zai biyo baya. A cikin ƙayyadaddun bayanin aure da saki, "George & Tammy" ɗaya ne daga cikin nunin kwanan nan - HBO na sake yin "Scenes From A Marriage," "Fleishman yana cikin Matsala," "Mafi Kyau," "Rarraba" - sake tunani da rikitar da wakilcin yadda aure zai kare da abin da zai biyo baya. A cikin zanen da ya dace game da aure da saki, George & Tammy yana ɗaya daga cikin abubuwan da aka nuna kwanan nan - HBO's remake of Scenes from A Aure, Fleischman in Trouble, Better Things, Rarraba - sake tunani da rikitarwa ra'ayi cewa yadda aure ya ƙare da abin da zai iya faruwa bayan . A cikin zane-zane na aure da saki, George & Tammy yana ɗaya daga cikin abubuwan da aka nuna kwanan nan - HBO's remake na The Marriage Scene, Fleischman a cikin Matsala, Mafi Kyawun Abubuwa, Rarraba - sake tunani da rikitarwa ra'ayin yadda ya ƙare.aure da abin da zai iya faruwa bayan sa.
"Yana da ban sha'awa a duk lokacin da muka canza yanayin iyali," Abbie Morgan ta ce game da wasan kwaikwayon ta, Split, game da dangin lauyoyin da aka saki a London, wanda aka buga a cikin lokaci uku da ya ƙare a farkon wannan shekara.shekara."Saboda haka za mu iya bayyana manufofin mu."
Jarumin da aka sake saki na farko da ya fito a wani wasan kwaikwayo na TV mai yiwuwa Vivian Bagley a cikin "Vivian Vance" akan Nunin Lucy, wanda aka fara a 1962 (The Lucy Show).Tushen kayan wasan kwaikwayon, littafin Irene Campin Life Ba tare da George ba, ya shafi mata biyu da aka sake su, amma duk da wannan—duk da dangantakar Ball ta zahiri da Desi Arnaz ya bambanta-an kwatanta halinta a matsayin gwauruwa, wanda ake tunanin shine kara tausayawa.Wataƙila Carol Brady na Iyalin Brady an sake shi, amma wasan ya fara ne a cikin 1969, a wannan shekarar da California ta karɓi kisan aure na shari'a, kuma ba a taɓa ambata ainihin ta ba.Tauraruwar wasan kwaikwayo na Mary Tyler Moore tauraruwar Mary Richards an fara tallata ta ne kamar yadda aka sake ta, amma cibiyar sadarwa ta dage cewa alkawari ya ƙare.
Duk da haka, yayin da yunkurin 'yantar da mata ya fadada kuma adadin saki ya karu, matan da aka saki sun zama ruwan dare a kan allo da a waje, kuma masu yin halitta sun nemi yin la'akari da yiwuwar labari da sakamakon zamantakewa da tattalin arziki na saki."Tsarin talabijin a cikin 19-70s yana da sha'awar bincika al'amuran zamantakewa," in ji Ann Burke, marubucin Mafi kyawun Rubutun Nasu: Marubuta Mata a Gidan Talabijin na Bayan Yaki."Saki matsala ce ta zamantakewa."
Me ya sa aka sami 'yan ƙwararrun jarumai maza da suka sake aure, in ban da jaruman bakin ciki da talauci a cikin Labari mai ban sha'awa?Wataƙila saboda kisan aure yana nufin ƙananan matsalolin kuɗi ga halayen maza, waɗanda mai yiwuwa sun riga sun yi aiki kuma suna jin daɗin rayuwa daga gida na dogon lokaci.Yiwuwar sabon ra'ayi an rage zuwa ƙarami.
Ƙari ga haka, ana ganin mazan da aka sake su a matsayin marasa tausayi.(Kana son tausayawa? Ka rubuta game da wadda mijinta ya mutu.) Idan aka koya wa mace son aure, hikimar da ake amfani da ita ita ce mace ta kasance tana da dalilai masu kyau na barin auren.Idan kuma auren ya ƙare mata, to da alama ta cancanci ƙarin tausayi.'Yancin maza yana da ƙarancin sakamako na zamantakewa.
A cikin 70s da farkon 80s, matan da aka saki da kuma waɗanda aka sake su sun kasance batutuwa masu yawa irin su Rana Daya a Lokaci, Life Life, Alice, Maude, da Rhoda.- kashe "Mary Tyler Moore".A cikin wa] annan nune-nunen mayar da hankali ga mata masu aiki da masu matsakaicin matsayi na birni, sau da yawa saki ya kasance illa ga tattalin arziki da zamantakewa wanda jaruma, jaruma, ko abokin tarayya ke jurewa da jaruntaka.
A farkon shekarun 2000, wani sabon nau'in macen da aka saki ya fito.Daga "Charlotte" a cikin "Jima'i da Birni" (wanda aka riga aka tsara a 1998) zuwa "Mun yi aure" (2007-2008) da "Jagorancin Yarinya don Saki" (2014-18), hoton saki ya zama mafi kyawu kuma mai gata.babban makirce maki ne, rabuwar yana ba wa matan damar sake gano kansu, kodayake sakin su galibi yana iyakance ga zaɓin salon rayuwa mai daɗi da samun sabbin abokan zama.Wannan yana nuna cewa mata ba kawai suna sakin ma'aurata ba, har ma da manyan batutuwan siyasa.(Wani mahimmin nuni: Tsarin Mata, wanda ya ƙare a cikin 1993, ya nuna halin saki ɗaya, Annie Potts 'Mary Jo, wacce aka saka hannun jari sosai a cikin 'yantar da mata, da kuma wani, Delta Burke's Suzanne, wanda ba haka bane.)
Suzanne Leonard, farfesa a Turanci a Jami'ar Simmons kuma marubucin Kamfanin Mata: Kasuwancin Aure a cikin 21st Century, yana ganin irin wannan nuni a matsayin misalai na bayan mata ko "zabi na mata," wanda shine akidar da kowace mace ta yi shi ne. gani a matsayin yiwuwar fadada hakki da dama."A cikin tashin hankali na biyu na mata, an yi magana da yawa game da abubuwan kudi na kisan aure," in ji ta."Kuma waɗannan sakamakon da gaske an rufe su."
An ci gaba da ba da fifiko kan 'yancin mace ta sirri a cikin nunin gani kamar The Amazing Mrs. Maisel, wanda halinta ya zama ɗan wasan barkwanci bayan rabuwa, Grace da Frankie, game da rayuwa bayan rabuwa da mijinta, tsawaita tsinuwa, da La'asar.Matar, wacce matar dan siyasar ke ci gaba bayan rabuwar aurenta (kuma ta fallasa dabi'un nata na shubuha).
Amma a cikin shekaru biyar da suka gabata, an fara yin nunin nunin faifai da ke tattare da tsarin kisan aure.('Yancin Namiji? Lokacinku ya zo.) Sharon Hogan ("Bala'i") ya haifar da saki, wanda aka watsa akan HBO daga 2016 zuwa 2019 yayin da aurenta yana raye.Amma duk da haka sai ta kuduri aniyar nunawa bangarorin biyu na rabuwar.A cikin wata hira da ta yi da wayar kwanan nan, ta ce tana sha'awar "bincika abin da ya haifar da batun wanda kuka samo asali ko mafi muni da kuma waɗanne haruffa za su so su dawo."
“Saki” da waɗanda suka yi zamani da su – “Mutumin da ke cikin Matsala”, “Ƙauna”, “Al’amuran Rayuwar Ma’aurata” sun nuna cewa saki ba dole ba ne ya zama bala’i ko jin daɗi.(The New Adventures of Old Christina, wadda jarumar ta ta ruɗe kafin a sake ta kamar yadda ta kasance a baya, ita ce magabaci mai gardama).da wuya yana nufin ƙarshen dangantaka, musamman idan ya zo ga yara.
"Wannan shi ne sirrin da ba wanda zai ce: Da zarar kuna son mutum, ba za ku daina son su ba," Abe Sylvia, mahaliccin "George & Tammy" ya ce. "Wannan shi ne sirrin da ba wanda zai ce: Da zarar kuna son mutum, ba za ku daina son su ba," Abe Sylvia, mahaliccin "George & Tammy" ya ce.Abe Sylvia, mahaliccin George da Tammy ya ce: “Asiri ne da ba wanda zai faɗa: idan kuna son mutum, ba za ku daina son su ba. “这是没有人会说的秘密：一旦你爱一个人，你就不会停止爱他们，”“George & Tammy”的创作者Abe Sylvia. “这是没有人会说的秘密：一旦你爱一个人，你就不会停止爱他们，”“George & Tammy”的创作者Abe Sylvia. "Ga wani sirrin da babu wanda ya taɓa bayyanawa: da zarar kuna son wani, ba za ku daina son su ba," in ji mahaliccin George & Tammy Abe Sylvia."Kuna iya yin fushi da fushi mai yawa, amma duk ya fito ne daga tushen sadarwa wanda a zahiri ke toshe."
"George & Tammy" yana kwatanta kisan aure kamar yadda ya cancanta, sakamakon shayarwar George. "George & Tammy" yana kwatanta kisan aure kamar yadda ya cancanta, sakamakon shayarwar George."George da Tammy" suna kwatanta kisan aure a matsayin dalilin da ya dace na shaye-shayen George. “George & Tammy”将离婚描述为必要的，这是乔治酗酒的结果。 George & Tammy"George da Tammy" suna kwatanta kisan aure a matsayin sakamakon da ya dace na shaye-shayen George.Amma dokar ba ta yanke alakar da ke tsakanin su biyun ba, wanda a yanzu da kuma ke da alaka da juna da kuma sana’a.Saki baya sakin Tammy.An bayyana aurenta na gaba da marubucin waƙa kuma furodusa George Rich (Steve Zahn) a matsayin mafi muni.Irin waɗannan batutuwan da suka addabi Tammy kafin sakinta - wani babban ɗabi'ar aiki wanda a ƙarshe ya yi lahani ga lafiyarta da tsananin shaƙuwarta - sun kasance tare da ita.
"Shin mutane suna samun wannan ikon a cikin aiki na uku?Ina ganin karya ce,” in ji Sylvia.“Dukkanmu koyaushe muna ɗaukar kaya na duk dangantakarmu.George da Tammy suna da gaskiya game da hakan. "
Yawan kashe aure ya ragu a shekarun baya-bayan nan, a wani bangare saboda adadin auren ma ya ragu.(Bisa ga ƙidayar baya-bayan nan, 5.1 cikin kowane 1,000 na Amurkawa sun yi aure kuma 2.3 sun rabu. Bidiyo ko Rhetoric na Jam'iyyar Republican La'anar Sakin Saki Babu Laifi, duk da haka, na iya ba da damar sake yin tunanin waɗannan sifofi ta hanyar lafiya, kamar yadda yake yi.
"Akwai hanyoyi da yawa don fara iyali," Ona Gulanik, masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam kuma tauraro na shirin Showtime improv series Therapy, ya ce a cikin wata hira ta wayar tarho kwanan nan."Miji da mata a cikin wani aure zaɓi ne kawai."
Wasu nunin nunin na baya sun ba da madadin tsarin iyali.A cikin Golden Girls, wanda ya fara a 1985, Dorothy ta saki daga Stan ya kai ga sabon tsarin rayuwa. "Kate & Allie," wanda ya fara a shekarar da ta gabata, yana ba da kyakkyawan ra'ayi wanda mata biyu da aka sake su da 'ya'yansu za su iya raba launin ruwan kasa na West Village. "Kate & Allie," wanda ya fara a shekarar da ta gabata, yana ba da kyakkyawan ra'ayi wanda mata biyu da aka sake su da 'ya'yansu za su iya raba launin ruwan kasa na West Village.Kate da Ellie, waɗanda suka fara shekara guda da ta gabata, kyakkyawan ra'ayi ne wanda matan da aka sake su da 'ya'yansu ke raba wani gida mai launin ruwan kauye na Yamma. Kate & Ally, wanda aka fara a shekarar da ta gabata, kyakkyawan zato ne wanda matan da aka sake su da 'ya'yansu ke raba wani gida mai launin ruwan kasa na West Village.Kwanan nan a cikin Mafi Kyau da Rarraba, matan da aka saki za su iya yin rayuwa mai wadata da ma'ana ba tare da neman sababbin abokan zama ba.
A cikin Abubuwan Mafi Kyau, wanda aka kammala a farkon wannan shekara, Pamela Adlon tana wasa Sam, uwa ɗaya kuma ƙwararriyar ƴan wasan kwaikwayo wacce asalinta yayi daidai da na Adlon.Tare da 'ya'ya mata uku masu girma, ƙungiyar abokai, da mahaifiya a kan titi, rayuwar Sam ta yi yawa.
Tana kaiwa zuwa wasan kwaikwayon na uku, ta tuna amsa tambayoyin manema labarai game da wanda Sam za a iya haɗa shi da shi, yana ƙara ƙarfafa ƙudurin Adlon na barin Sam aure."A lokacin ne na fahimci muhimmancin da yake da shi na ci gaba da tafiya a kan hanya in yi tunani a kan rayuwata da kuma rayuwar wasu mata da yawa da ba su sake gina iyalansu ba," in ji ta.
Wannan hakika shine ɗayan mafi kyawun kyauta na talabijin - ikon nuna rayuwarmu a gare mu, buɗe yiwuwar sabon abu.Alal misali, ƙarshen "The Split" ya jaddada dangantakar da ke tsakanin Hannah Nicole Walker da iyalinta maimakon tura ta zuwa sabon abokin tarayya.
Morgan ya yi fim ɗin ƙarewa guda biyu, ɗaya daga cikinsu yana nuni ga makomar soyayya ga Hannah."Amma a zahiri, lokacin da na gan shi, an busa ni," in ji ta."Ina tunanin dukan abokaina da suka yi kisan aure, kuma saboda wasu dalilai na sake maimaita wannan furcin: "Ba ku da cikakke har sai kun sami sabon dangantaka."
Morgan baya adawa da soyayya, in ji ta, kuma baya adawa da aure.Ta kasance tare da mijinta, marubuci Jacob Krichefsky, tsawon shekaru 22.Amma ta yi imani da wasu nau'ikan soyayya, haɗin gwiwa da dangi.
"Mutane koyaushe suna son ƙarshen farin ciki," in ji ta."Muna kawai canza ra'ayin menene ƙarshen farin ciki."
Lokacin aikawa: Dec-16-2022