E like me ka hoʻololi ʻana o nā loina o ka male ʻana a me ka hemo ʻana i nā makahiki he nui, pēlā nō ke kiʻi ʻana iā lākou ma ke kīwī, nā mea hou loa ma nā hōʻike e like me George & Tammy, Best Things and Divorce.
Ma Ianuali 26, 1992, hāʻawi ʻo Hillary Clinton i kahi ninaninau i 60 Minutes.ʻO ka mea mele Cabaret ʻo Jennifer Flowers i wehe koke aku i nā tabloids e pili ana i kāna pilina lōʻihi me ka moho pelekikena ʻo Bill Clinton.Noho ʻo Hillary ma kahi moe ma ka ʻaoʻao o kāna kāne, ua ʻaʻahu ʻia ʻo Hillary i kahi blazer a me ka hijab, a ʻo kona helehelena mua e hōʻike ana i kona kūʻokoʻa.
"ʻAʻole wau he wahine liʻiliʻi e noho ana ma ʻaneʻi, e kū kokoke ana i kaʻu kāne e like me Tammy Wynette," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia i ka mea nīnauele.
ʻOiai ʻo ia i hoʻokomo i loko o kahi leka hāmama, he moʻolelo mele ʻāina ʻo Wynette i kēlā manawa me kahi streak o #1 hits, a ua huhū ʻo ia.“Ua haʻi aku ʻo Mrs.Clinton, hōʻino ʻoe i kēlā me kēia wahine a me nā kāne makemake i kēia mele, "i kākau ai ʻo ia."Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au ua hōʻeha ʻoe i kēlā me kēia mea hoʻokani mele ʻāina a me kēlā me kēia kanaka 'kūʻokoʻa'."
ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mea hoʻohenehene nui kēia.Ke kū maoli nei ʻo Clinton ma ka ʻaoʻao o kāna kāne ma luna o kēia moena cream.Ua kū ʻo ia ma kahi ʻaoʻao.ʻOiai ka manaʻo o kāna leka, ua hele ʻo Wynette i Nashville ma ke ʻano he makuahine hoʻokahi a loaʻa ʻelua male male a hoʻokahi, akā ʻaʻole.
ʻO ka moʻolelo o Wynette - mele, male - ua ola hou ʻia ma "George & Tammy," he moʻolelo palena ʻole, e hoʻolele ʻia ana ma Showtime, nā hōkū ʻo Jessica Chastain ʻo Wynette a ʻo Michael Shannon kāna kāne ʻekolu, ka hōkū ʻāina ʻo George Jones. ʻO ka moʻolelo o Wynette - mele, male - ua ola hou ʻia ma "George & Tammy," he moʻolelo palena ʻole, e hoʻolele ʻia ana ma Showtime, ʻo ia nā hōkū ʻo Jessica Chastain ʻo Wynette a ʻo Michael Shannon kāna kāne ʻekolu, ʻo ka hōkū ʻāina ʻo George Jones. Ua ho'āla hou ʻia ka moʻolelo a Wynette—mele, male—ma ka hōʻike palena palena ʻo George & Tammy ma Showtime, me Jessica Chastain ʻo Wynette a ʻo Michael Shannon kāna kāne ʻekolu, ʻo ka hōkū mele ʻāina ʻo George Jones. ʻO ka moʻolelo a Wynette - ke mele, ka male - ua puka hou mai i ka Showtime limited series George & Tammy, nā hōkū ʻo Jessica Chastain ʻo Wynette a ʻo Michael Shannon kāna kāne ʻekolu, ʻo ka hōkū mele ʻāina ʻo George Jones. I loko o kāna mau hiʻohiʻona o ka male a me ka hemo ʻana, ʻo "George & Tammy" kekahi o nā hōʻike hou loa - ka HBO remake o "Scenes From a Marriage," "Fleishman Is in Trouble," "Better Things," "The Split" - noʻonoʻo hou. a me ka paʻakikī i ka hōʻike ʻana i ka hopena o ka male ʻana a me nā mea e hiki mai ana. I loko o kāna mau hiʻohiʻona o ka male a me ka hemo ʻana, ʻo "George & Tammy" kekahi o nā hōʻike hou loa - ka HBO remake o "Scenes From a Marriage," "Fleishman Is in Trouble," "Better Things," "The Split" - noʻonoʻo hou. a me ka paʻakikī i ka hōʻike ʻana i ka hopena o ka male ʻana a me nā mea e hiki mai ana. Ma kāna hōʻike maʻalahi o ka male ʻana a me ka hemo ʻana, ʻo George & Tammy kekahi o nā hōʻike hou loa - HBO's remake of Scenes from a Marriage, Fleischman in Trouble, Better Things, Split - e noʻonoʻo hou a hoʻopiʻi i ka manaʻo pehea e pau ai ka male a me ka mea e hiki ke hana ma hope. . Ma kāna hōʻike maʻalahi o ka male ʻana a me ka hemo ʻana, ʻo George & Tammy kekahi o nā hōʻike hou - HBO's remake of The Marriage Scene, Fleischman in Trouble, Better Things, Split - reimagining and complicating the idea of how it ended.ka male ʻana a me ka mea hiki ke hana ma hope.
"He mea hoihoi ia i kēlā me kēia manawa a mākou e hoʻololi ai i ke ʻano o ka ʻohana," i ʻōlelo ai ʻo Abbie Morgan e pili ana i kāna screenplay, Split, e pili ana i kahi ʻohana loio male male ma Lākana, i paʻi ʻia i loko o kahi pukana ʻekolu mau makahiki i pau ma mua o kēia makahiki.makahiki."No ka mea hiki iā mākou ke hōʻike i kā mākou mau manaʻo."
ʻO ka protagonist male male mua i hōʻike ʻia ma kahi hōʻike TV i kākau ʻia ʻo Vivian Bagley paha ma "Vivian Vance" ma The Lucy Show, i hoʻomaka ʻia ma 1962 (The Lucy Show).ʻO ke kumu kumu no ka hōʻike, ʻo ka puke moʻolelo ʻo Irene Campin ʻo Life Without George, e pili ana i ʻelua mau wahine hemo, akā ʻoiai ʻo kēia - ʻoiai ʻo ka pilina maoli o Ball me Desi Arnaz i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia - ua hōʻike ʻia kona ʻano he wahine kāne make, i manaʻo ʻia e hoala hou aku i ke aloha.Ua hemo paha ʻo Carol Brady o ka ʻohana Brady, akā ua hoʻomaka ka hōʻike i ka makahiki 1969, ʻo ia ka makahiki i ʻae ai ʻo Kaleponi i ka male male kānāwai, a ʻaʻole i haʻi ʻia kona ʻike.Ua hoʻolaha mua ʻia ka hōkū ʻo Mary Tyler Moore Show ʻo Mary Richards ma ke ʻano he hemo ʻana, akā ke koi nei ka pūnaewele ua pau ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana.
Eia nō naʻe, i ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka neʻe ʻana o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana o nā wahine a piʻi aʻe ka nui o ka hemo ʻana, ua maʻa mau nā wahine hemo ma ka ʻaoʻao a ma waho o ka pā, a ua ʻimi nā mea hana e ʻimi i ka hopena moʻolelo a me nā hopena socio-economic o ka hemo ʻana."Ua makemake nui ka Television ma nā makahiki 19-70 i ka ʻimi ʻana i nā pilikia pilikanaka," wahi a Ann Burke, ka mea kākau o The Best of Their Own Writing: Women Writers in Post-War Television."He pilikia pilikanaka ka oki mare."
No ke aha i liʻiliʻi ai ka poʻe protagonists kāne male male, koe naʻe ka protagonist kaumaha a ʻilihune ma A Strange Flowers Story?No ka mea, ʻo ka hemo ʻana ke kumu o ka haʻahaʻa kālā no nā kāne kāne, ka mea i manaʻo ʻia ua hana mua lākou a hauʻoli i ka noho ʻana mai ka home no ka manawa lōʻihi.Hoʻemi ʻia ka hiki o nā manaʻo hou i ka liʻiliʻi.
Eia kekahi, ʻike pinepine ʻia nā kāne hemo me ka nele o ka empathy.(Makemake i ke aloha? E kākau e pili ana i ka wahine kāne make.) Inā aʻo ʻia ka wahine e makemake i ka male, ʻo ka naʻauao maʻamau ʻo ia ke kumu kūpono o ka wahine e haʻalele ai i ka male.A inā e pau ka male ʻana iā ia, a laila, pono ʻo ia e aloha nui aku.Ua liʻiliʻi nā hopena pilikanaka i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻana o ke kāne.
I nā makahiki 70 a me nā makahiki 80, ʻo nā wahine hemo a hemo ke kumuhana o nā sitcoms he nui e like me One Day at a Time, That's Life, Alice, Maude, a me Rhoda.-ma ka "Mary Tyler Moore".Ma kēia mau hōʻike e kālele ana i ka hana a me ka waena waena o nā wahine kūlanakauhale, ʻo ka hemo ʻana he mea pōʻino waiwai a me ka pilikanaka i hoʻomanawanui ʻia e ka heroine, heroine, a i ʻole ka hoa kāne.
I ka hoʻomaka ʻana o nā makahiki 2000, ua puka mai kahi ʻano wahine hemo hou.Mai "Charlotte" ma "Sex and the City" (i hoʻomaka mua ʻia i ka makahiki 1998) a i "We Got Married" (2007-2008) a me "The Girl's Guide to Divorce" (2014-18), ua ʻoi aku ka nani o ke kiʻi ʻana o ka male male. pono.ʻO ka haʻihaʻi ʻana he manawa kūpono i nā wahine e ʻike hou iā lākou iho, ʻoiai ʻo kā lākou hoʻokuʻu pinepine ʻia i kaupalena ʻia i nā koho ola nani a me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoa hou.Hōʻike kēia i ka haʻalele ʻana o nā wahine i kā lākou mau kāne, akā me nā pilikia politika ākea.(Hoʻokahi hōʻike nui: The Design of Women, i pau i ka makahiki 1993, i hōʻike ʻia i kahi kanaka hemo, ʻo Annie Potts 'Marry Jo, ka mea i hoʻolilo nui ʻia i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i nā wahine, a ʻo kekahi, ʻo Delta Burke's Suzanne, ʻaʻole ia.)
ʻO Suzanne Leonard, ka polopeka o ka ʻōlelo Pelekania ma ke Kulanui ʻo Simmons a me ka mea kākau o Company of Wives: The Business of Marriage in the 21st Century, ʻike i nā hōʻike e like me nā hiʻohiʻona o ka post-feminism a i ʻole "choice feminism," he manaʻo ia e hana ai kekahi wahine. ʻike ʻia he mea hiki ke hoʻonui i nā kuleana a me nā manawa kūpono."I ka lua o ka nalu o ka wahine, ua nui nā kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā hopena kālā o ka hemo ʻana," wahi āna."A ua paʻa maoli kēlā mau hopena."
Ua hoʻomau ʻia kēia manaʻo nui i ka hoʻokuʻu pilikino o ka wahine ma nā hōʻike e like me The Amazing Mrs. Maisel, nona kona ʻano i lilo i mea hoʻokalakupua ma hope o ka haʻalele ʻana, ʻo Grace lāua ʻo Frankie, e pili ana i ke ola ma hope o ka hemo ʻana mai kāna kāne, kahi hōʻino lōʻihi, a me ke ahiahi maikaʻi.ʻO ka Wife, kahi e ulu ai ka wahine a ka mea kālai'āina ma hope o ka hāʻule ʻana o kāna male ʻana (a hōʻike i kāna mau ʻano kānalua).
Akā i nā makahiki ʻelima i hala iho nei, ua hoʻomaka ka nui o nā hōʻike e ʻimi i ka ʻaoʻao o ke kaʻina hemo.(Hoʻokuʻu kāne kāne? Ua hiki mai kou manawa.) Ua hana ʻo Sharon Hogan ("Catastrophe") i ka Divorce, i hoʻolaha ʻia ma HBO mai 2016 a 2019 ʻoiai e ola ana kāna male ponoʻī.Akā naʻe, ua paʻa ʻo ia e hōʻike i nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua o ka māhele.I loko o kahi ninaninau kelepona i hala iho nei, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua hoihoi ʻo ia i ka "ʻimi ʻana i ke kumu e pili ana i ka mea āu e aʻa ai a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me nā mea makemake e hoʻi."
"Divorce" a me kona mau hoa - "Fleishman in Trouble", "Love", "Scenes from a Married Life" - e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole pono ka hemo ʻana he pōʻino a hoʻomaha paha.(ʻO ka New Adventures of Old Christina, nona ka heroine i huikau ma mua o kona hemo ʻana e like me kāna ma hope, he mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma mua.) ʻO ka hemo ʻana, ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei kēia mau hōʻike, e hoʻoponopono i kekahi mau pilikia, akā ʻaʻole pono nā mea ʻē aʻe.kakaʻikahi ka hopena hope loa o ka pilina, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā keiki.
"ʻO kēia ka mea huna ʻaʻole e ʻōlelo kekahi: Ke aloha ʻoe i ke kanaka, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻōki i ke aloha iā lākou," wahi a Abe Sylvia, ka mea nāna i hana iā "George & Tammy". "ʻO kēia ka mea huna ʻaʻole e ʻōlelo kekahi: Ke aloha ʻoe i ke kanaka, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻōki i ke aloha iā lākou," wahi a Abe Sylvia, ka mea nāna i hana iā "George & Tammy"."He mea huna ʻaʻole e haʻi ʻia e kekahi: inā aloha ʻoe i ke kanaka, ʻaʻole ʻoe e pau ke aloha iā lākou," wahi a Abe Sylvia, ka mea nāna i hana ʻo George lāua ʻo Tammy. “这是没有人会说的秘密：一旦你爱一个人，你就不会停止爱他们，”“George & Tammy”的创作者者 Abe Sylvia. “这是没有人会说的秘密：一旦你爱一个人，你就不会停止爱他们，”“George & Tammy”的创作者者 Abe Sylvia. "Eia kahi mea huna ʻaʻole i hōʻike ʻia: ke aloha ʻoe i kekahi, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻōki i ke aloha iā ia," wahi a George & Tammy haku hana ʻo Abe Sylvia."Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka huhū a me ka huhū, akā hele mai nā mea āpau mai kahi kumu kamaʻilio i paʻa maoli ʻia."
Hōʻike ʻo "George & Tammy" i ka hemo ʻana e like me ka mea e pono ai, kahi hopena o ka inu ʻona ʻana o George. Hōʻike ʻo "George & Tammy" i ka hemo ʻana e like me ka mea e pono ai, kahi hopena o ka inu ʻona ʻana o George.Hōʻike ʻo "George lāua ʻo Tammy" i ka hemo ʻana ma ke ʻano he hopena koʻikoʻi o ka inu ʻona o George. “George & Tammy”将离婚描述为必要的，这是乔治酗酒的结果。 George & TammyHōʻike ʻo "George lāua ʻo Tammy" i ka hemo ʻana ma ke ʻano he hopena kūpono o ka inu ʻona o George.Akā, ʻaʻole i hoʻokaʻawale ka ʻōlelo i nā mea paʻa ma waena o nā mea ʻelua, ka mea i hui pū ʻia i kēia manawa a me ka ʻoihana.ʻAʻole hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻo Tammy no ka hemo ʻana.ʻO kāna male hope ʻana me ka mea kākau mele a me ka mea hana ʻo George Rich (Steve Zahn) i wehewehe ʻia ʻo ia ka mea ʻino loa.ʻO nā pilikia like i hoʻopilikia iā Tammy ma mua o kona hemo ʻana - he ʻano hana koʻikoʻi i hoʻopilikia i kona olakino a me kona pilina paʻa - noho pū me ia.
"Loaʻa anei i nā kānaka kēia mana ma ke kolu o ka hana?Manaʻo wau he wahaheʻe," wahi a Sylvia."Ke lawe mau nei mākou a pau i nā ʻeke o kā mākou pilina.Ua ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo George lāua ʻo Tammy no ia mea. "
Ua emi iho ka nui o ka hemo ana i na makahiki i hala iho nei, no ka emi ana o ka nui o na mare.(E like me ka helu helu hope loa, 5.1 o kēlā me kēia 1,000 ʻAmelika i male a he 2.3 i hemo.) Ma ka manawa like, manaʻo kekahi mau kihi o ka moʻomeheu e pono ke hoʻopakele ʻia nā hale kuʻuna ʻohana—TikTok, no ka laʻana, hoʻolaha i ke ola. Hiki i ke wikiō a i ʻole Republican Rhetoric Condemning No-Fault Divorce Divorce, akā, hiki ke hāʻawi i kahi manawa e noʻonoʻo hou ai i kēia mau hale ma ke ʻano olakino, e like me ia.
"He nui nā ala e hoʻomaka ai i kahi ʻohana," wahi a Ona Gulanik, he psychoanalyst a me ka hōkū o ka Showtime improv series Couples Therapy, i ʻōlelo ʻia i loko o kahi ninaninau kelepona hou."ʻO ke kāne a me ka wahine i kekahi male he koho wale nō ia."
Hāʻawi kekahi o nā hōʻike mua i nā hale ʻohana ʻē aʻe.I loko o The Golden Girls, i hoʻomaka i ka makahiki 1985, ʻo ka haʻalele ʻana o Dorothy mai Stan e alakaʻi i kāna hoʻonohonoho ola hou. ʻO "Kate & Allie," i hoʻomaka i ka makahiki ma mua, e hōʻike ana i kahi moʻo noʻonoʻo maikaʻi e hiki ai i nā wahine male male ʻelua a me kā lāua mau keiki ke kaʻana i kahi pōhaku brown Village West. ʻO "Kate & Allie," i hoʻomaka i ka makahiki ma mua, e hōʻike ana i kahi moʻo noʻonoʻo maikaʻi e hiki ai i nā wahine male male ʻelua a me kā lāua mau keiki ke kaʻana i kahi pōhaku brown Village West.ʻO Kate lāua ʻo Ellie, ka mea i hoʻomaka i hoʻokahi makahiki ma mua, he moʻolelo maikaʻi ia kahi i hoʻokaʻawale ai nā wahine male male ʻelua a me kā lāua mau keiki i kahi hale brownstone West Village. ʻO Kate & Ally, ka mea i hoʻomaka mua ʻia i ka makahiki i hala aku nei, he moʻolelo maikaʻi ia kahi i hoʻokaʻawale ai nā wahine male male ʻelua a me kā lāua mau keiki i kahi hale brownstone West Village.ʻO nā mea hou aʻe ma Better Things and Split, hiki i nā wahine hemo ke alakaʻi i nā ola waiwai a me ka ʻole e ʻimi i nā hoa hou.
Ma nā mea maikaʻi, i hoʻopau ʻia ma mua o kēia makahiki, hoʻokani ʻo Pamela Adlon iā Sam, he makuahine hoʻokahi a me ka mea hana keaka ʻoihana nona ke ʻano o Adlon ponoʻī.Me ʻekolu mau kaikamahine e ulu ana, he pūʻulu hoaloha ikaika, a he makuahine ma kēlā ʻaoʻao o ke alanui, ua paʻa loa ke ola o Sam.
Ma ke alakaʻi ʻana i ke kolu o ka manawa o ka hōʻike, hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia i ka pane ʻana i nā nīnau mai ka pāpā e pili ana i ka mea e hui pū ʻia ai ʻo Sam, e hoʻoikaika hou ana i ka manaʻo paʻa o Adlon e haʻalele iā Sam hoʻokahi."ʻO ia kaʻu i ʻike ai i ka mea nui o ka noho ʻana ma ke alahele a noʻonoʻo i koʻu ola ponoʻī a me nā ola o nā wahine ʻē aʻe he nui ʻole i kūkulu hou i ko lākou ʻohana," wahi āna.
ʻO kēia kekahi o nā makana nui loa o ke kīwī - ka hiki ke hōʻike i ko mākou ola ponoʻī iā mākou, e wehe ana i ka hiki ke hana hou.No ka laʻana, ʻo ka hoʻopau ʻana o "The Split" i hoʻokūpaʻa i ka pilina ma waena o Hannah Nicole Walker a me kona ʻohana ma mua o ke koi ʻana iā ia i kahi hoa hou.
Ua kiʻi ʻia ʻo Morgan i ʻelua mau hopena, ʻo kekahi o ia mea i hōʻike i kahi aloha aloha no Hannah."Akā ʻoiaʻiʻo, i koʻu ʻike ʻana, ua hauʻoli wau," wahi āna."Ke manaʻo nei au i koʻu mau hoaaloha a pau i hala ma ke oki mare, a no kekahi kumu ke haʻi hou nei au i ka ʻōlelo: "ʻAʻole ʻoe i hemolele a hiki i kou loaʻa ʻana i kahi pilina hou."
ʻAʻole kūʻē ʻo Morgan i ke aloha, wehewehe ʻo ia, ʻaʻole kūʻē i ka male.ʻO ia me kāna kāne, ka mea kākau ʻo Jacob Krichefsky, no 22 mau makahiki.Akā, manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia i nā ʻano like ʻole o ke aloha, ka pilina a me ka ʻohana.
"Makemake mau ka poʻe i ka hopena hauʻoli," wahi āna."Ke hoʻololi wale nei mākou i ka manaʻo o ka hopena hauʻoli."
Ka manawa hoʻouna: Dec-16-2022