Sezvo tsika dzewanano nekurambana zvachinja mumakumi emakore, ndizvo zvakaitawo kuratidzwa kwavo paterevhizheni, nguva pfupi yadarika pazviratidzwa zvakaita saGeorge & Tammy, Zvakanakisa Zvinhu uye Kurambana.
Musi waNdira 26, 1992, Hillary Clinton akapa hurukuro kuMaminitsi makumi matanhatu.Muimbi weCabaret, Jennifer Flowers, nguva pfupi yadarika akavhura mapepanhau nezve hukama hwake hwenguva refu neaimbove mutungamiriri wenyika, Bill Clinton.Akagara pasofa pedyo nomurume wake, Hillary akanga akapfeka blazer nehijab, uye chitarisiko chake chairatidza kuzvimirira kwake.
“Handisi mukadzi muduku agere pano, akamira pedyo nomurume wangu saTammy Wynette,” akaudza mubvunzurudzo.
Sezvaakaiisa mutsamba yakazaruka, Wynette aive ngano yemimhanzi yenyika panguva iyoyo aine streak ye # 1 hits, uye akashatirwa.“Mai.Clinton, unotuka mukadzi nemurume wese anoda rwiyo urwu,” akanyora kudaro."Ndinotenda kuti wakagumbura munhu wese wechokwadi mimhanzi yenyika uye munhu wese 'akazvimiririra'."
Chokwadika, uku kupenga kukuru.Clinton akanyatsomira padivi pemurume wake pasofa rekrimu iyi.Akaramba akamira parutivi.Pasinei nezvingataurwa netsamba yake, Wynette akauya kuNashville saamai vasina murume uye vakarambana vaviri uye mumwe, asi haana.
Nhoroondo yaWynette - mimhanzi, yewanano - inomutsiridzwa mu "George & Tammy," akateedzana akateedzana, anoridza paShowtime, iyo ine nyeredzi Jessica Chastain saWynette naMichael Shannon semurume wake wechitatu, nyeredzi yenyika George Jones. Nhoroondo yaWynette - mimhanzi, yewanano - inomutsiridzwa mu "George & Tammy," akateedzana akateedzana, anoridza paShowtime, iyo ine nyeredzi Jessica Chastain saWynette naMichael Shannon semurume wake wechitatu, nyeredzi yenyika George Jones. Nyaya yaWynette — mimhanzi, yewanano — inomutswa muGeorge & Tammy limited series paShowtime, ine Jessica Chastain saWynette naMichael Shannon semurume wake wechitatu, nyeredzi yemumhanzi wenyika George Jones. Nyaya yaWynette - mimhanzi, muchato - inomuka zvakare muShowtime limited series George & Tammy, uyo ane nyeredzi Jessica Chastain saWynette naMichael Shannon semurume wake wechitatu, mutambi wenyika George Jones. Mumufananidzo wayo wakajeka wewanano nekurambana, "George & Tammy" ndechimwe chezviratidziro zvichangoburwa - iyo HBO remake ye "Scenes Kubva Muwanano," "Munyama Ari Mudambudziko," "Zvinhu Zvirinani," "Kuparadzana" - kufunga patsva. uye kunetsa kumiririra kuti muchato unopera sei uye chii chingazotevera. Mumufananidzo wayo wakajeka wewanano nekurambana, "George & Tammy" ndechimwe chezviratidziro zvichangoburwa - iyo HBO remake ye "Scenes Kubva Muwanano," "Munyama Ari Mudambudziko," "Zvinhu Zvirinani," "Kuparadzana" - kufunga patsva. uye kunetsa kumiririra kuti muchato unopera sei uye chii chingazotevera. Mukuratidzira kwakadzikama kwewanano nekurambana, George & Tammy ndeimwe yezviratidziro zvichangoburwa - HBO's remake yeScenes kubva muwanano, Fleischman muDambudziko, Zvirinani Zvinhu, Kupatsanurwa - kufungidzira uye kuomesa pfungwa yekuti muchato unopera sei uye chii chinogona kuitika mushure. . Mukuratidzira kwayo kusinganzwisisike kwewanano nekurambana, George & Tammy ndeimwe yeati wandei achangoburwa - remake yeHBO yeThe Marriage Scene, Fleischman muDambudziko, Zvirinani Zvinhu, Kuparadzana - kufungidzira uye kuomesa pfungwa yekuti zvakapera sei.muchato uye chii chingazoitika mushure mawo.
"Zvinonakidza pese patinochinja maitiro emhuri," Abbie Morgan akadaro nezvemuratidziri wake, Split, nezve mhuri yemagweta akarambana muLondon, iyo yakaburitswa mumwaka mitatu yakapera gore rino.gore."Nekuti tinokwanisa kuburitsa zvatinoda."
Wekutanga akarambana protagonist kuoneka pane yakanyorwa TV show angangove Vivian Bagley mu "Vivian Vance" paThe Lucy Show, iyo yakatanga muna 1962 (The Lucy Show).Mhedzisiro yezvinyorwa zveshoo, bhuku raIrene Campin Hupenyu Pasina George, rinotaura nezvevakadzi vaviri vakarambana, asi zvisinei neizvi-zvisinei nehukama chaihwo hwaBall naDesi Arnaz hwakasiyana-hunhu hwake hwakafananidzirwa sechirikadzi, iyo yaifungidzirwa kuti ndeye. kumutsa tsitsi dzakawanda.Carol Brady weThe Brady Family anogona kunge akarambana, asi showa yakatanga muna 1969, gore rimwe chete iro California yakagamuchira kurambana zviri pamutemo, uye kuzivikanwa kwake hakuna kumbotaurwa zvakajeka.Nyeredzi yeMary Tyler Moore Show Mary Richards yakatanga kushambadzwa sekuti vakarambana, asi network inosimbirira kuti kufambidzana kwapera.
Zvakadaro, apo bato rerusununguko revakadzi rakawedzera uye huwandu hwekurambana huchikwira, vakadzi vakarambwa vakatanga kuwanda pasekirini nekunze, uye vagadziri vakatsvaga kuongorora zvingangoitika uye mhedzisiro yemagariro nehupfumi yekurambana."Terevhizheni mu19-70s yaifarira kwazvo kuongorora nyaya dzemagariro," akadaro Ann Burke, munyori weThe Best of Their Own Writing: Vakadzi Vanyori muPost-War Television.“Kurambana idambudziko renzanga.”
Sei paine vashoma vakarambana varatidziri vechirume vakarambana, kunze kweanosiririsa uye murombo protagonist muA Strange Flowers Story?Zvichida nemhaka yokuti kurambana kwaireva zvipingamupinyi zvemari zvakaderera zvevatambi vechirume, avo sezvingabvira vakanga vachitoshanda uye vachifarikanya upenyu kure nemusha kwenguva refu.Iko kugona kwekuonekwa kutsva kunoderedzwa kusvika padiki.
Uyezve, varume vakarambana vanowanzoonekwa sevasina tsitsi.(Unoda kunzwirwa tsitsi here? Nyora nezvomurume akafirwa.) Kana mukadzi akadzidziswa kuda kuroora, uchenjeri hunozivikanwa ndehwokuti mudzimai anofanira kuva nezvikonzero zvakanaka zvokusiya muchato.Uye kana muchato ukapera nokuda kwake, ipapo anoratidzika kuva akafanirwa nokunzwirwa tsitsi.Kusununguka kwechirume kwaiva nemigumisiro shoma mumagariro evanhu.
Muma70s uye ekutanga 80s, vakadzi vakarambana uye vakarambana vaive nyaya yemasitcom akawanda akadai One Day at a Time, That's Life, Alice, Maude, naRhoda.-kubva "Mary Tyler Moore".Muzviratidziro izvi zvinonangana nevakadzi vemudhorobha vanoshanda nevepakati, kurambana kunowanzova kukanganisa kwehupfumi nemagariro uko heroine, heroine, kana shamwari yake inotsungirira noushingi.
Mukutanga kwema2000, rudzi rutsva rwemukadzi akarambwa rwakabuda.Kubva ku "Charlotte" mu "Bonde neGuta" (yakatanga muna 1998) kusvika "Takaroorana" (2007-2008) uye "The Girl's Guide to Divorce" (2014-18), kuratidzwa kwekurambana kwave kunakidza uye. ropafadzo.inzvimbo huru yekuronga, kurambana kunopa vakadzi mukana wekuti vazvizive patsva, kunyangwe kusunungurwa kwavo kunowanzo kugumira kusarudzo dzemararamiro eumbozha uye kutsvaga shamwari itsva.Izvi zvinoratidza kuti vanhukadzi havasi kurambana chete nevavakaroorana navo, asiwo nenyaya dzakawanda dzezvematongerwo enyika.(Imwe shoo yakakosha: Dhizaini yevakadzi, iyo yakapera muna 1993, yakaratidza mumwe murume akarambana nemurume, Annie Potts 'Mary Jo, aive akadyarwa zvakanyanya mukusunungurwa kwevakadzi, uye mumwe, Delta Burke's Suzanne, aive asina.)
Suzanne Leonard, purofesa weChirungu paSimmons University uye munyori weCompany of Wives: The Business of Marriage in the 21st Century, anoona zviratidziro zvakadaro semienzaniso yepost-feminism kana “choice feminism,” inova pfungwa inoitwa nechero mukadzi. zvinoonekwa sezvingango wedzera kodzero nemikana.“Mukati mechikamu chechipiri chekurwira kodzero dzevanhukadzi, paive nekutaura kwakawanda pamusoro pezvinokonzeresa zvemari pakurambana,” akadaro."Uye izvo zvinokonzeresa zvakanyarara."
Iyi simbiso pakusunungurwa kwomunhu oga kwomukadzi yakapfuurira muzviratidziro zvakadai saThe Amazing Mai Maisel, ane chimiro chakava mutsigiri pashure pokurambana, Grace naFrankie, pamusoro poupenyu pashure pokurambana nomurume wake, chituko chakawedzerwa, uye Manheru Akanaka.Mudzimai, umo mudzimai wezvematongerwo enyika anobudirira mushure mekunge muchato wake waparara (uye anofumura hunhu hwake husina chokwadi).
Asi mukati mamakore mashanu apfuura, zviratidzo zvakawanda zvikuru zvakavamba kunzvera rutivi rwomuitiro wokurambana.(Kusununguka kwevarume? Nguva yako yasvika.) Sharon Hogan ("Njodzi") akagadzira Kurambana, iyo yakabuda paHBO kubva muna 2016 kusvika muna 2019 apo imba yake yakanga ichiri kurarama.Asi kunyangwe zvakadaro, aive akatsunga kuratidza mativi ese ekupatsanura.Mubvunzurudzo parunhare nguva pfupi yadarika, akati aifarira "kuongorora chinokonzeresa maererano nekuti waunodzingira ani kana kuti wakaipa uye kuti ndevapi mavara angada kudzoka."
“Kurambana” nevaya vakararama panguva imwe chete navo – “Munhu Wenyama Ari Mudambudziko”, “Rudo”, “Zviratidzo Kubva Muupenyu Hwevakaroorana” - zvinoratidza kuti kurambana hakufaniri kuva njodzi kana kuti kuzorodza.( The New Adventures of Old Christina, ane heroine akanga akakangaidzika pamberi pokurambana kwake sezvaakanga aita pashure, akanga ari mutangiri anoitiranwa nharo.) Kurambana, izvi zvinoratidzira zvinopokanidza, kuchapedza zvimwe zvinetso, asi kwete hazvo hazvo zvimwe.kashoma kureva magumo ekupedzisira ehukama, kunyanya kana zvasvika kune vana.
"Ichi ndicho chakavanzika icho hapana achati: Kana wangoda munhu, hauregi kumuda," Abe Sylvia, mugadziri we "George & Tammy" akadaro. "Ichi ndicho chakavanzika icho hapana achati: Kana wangoda munhu, hauregi kumuda," Abe Sylvia, mugadziri we "George & Tammy" akadaro."Chakavanzika hapana achataura: kana uchida munhu, hauzoregi kumuda," akadaro Abe Sylvia, mugadziri waGeorge naTammy. “這是沒有人会說的秘密：一旦你爱一个人，你就不会停止爱他們，”“George & Tammy”的创作者Abe Sylvia akati. “這是沒有人会說的秘密：一旦你爱一个人，你就不会停止爱他們，”“George & Tammy”的创作者Abe Sylvia akati. "Hechino chakavanzika hapana anombozivisa: kana wangoda mumwe munhu, haumboregi kumuda," anodaro George & Tammy musiki Abe Sylvia."Unogona kutsamwa uye kutsamwa kukuru, asi zvese zvinobva kune yepakati yekukurukurirana yakavharwa."
“George naTammy” rinoratidzira kurambana sezviri madikanwa, muuyo woudhakwa hwaGeorge. “George naTammy” rinoratidzira kurambana sezviri madikanwa, muuyo woudhakwa hwaGeorge.“George naTammy” rinoratidzira chatanuro somuuyo uri madikanwa woudhakwa hwaGeorge. “George & Tammy”将离婚描述為必要的，這是乔治酗酒的结果. George & Tammy“George naTammy” rinoratidzira chatanuro somuuyo uri madikanwa woudhakwa hwaGeorge.Asi chirevo hachina kupatsanura zvisungo pakati pezviviri izvi, izvo zvino uye zvino zvakapindirana pauzima uye nehunyanzvi.Kurambana hakusununguri Tammy.Muchato wake wakatevera kune munyori wenziyo uye mugadziri George Rich (Steve Zahn) akatsanangurwa seakanyanya kuipa.Nyaya dzimwe chetedzo dzakatambudza Tammy vasati varambana - basa rinorema iro rakazokanganisa hutano hwake uye kushamwaridzana kwake kwakanyanya - zvakagara naye.
“Vanhu vanowana simba iri muchiito chechitatu here?Ndinofunga manyepo,” anodaro Sylvia.“Tese tinogara takatakura mikwende yehukama hwedu hwese.George naTammy vakatendeseka nezvazvo.”
Mwero yechatanuro yakaderera mumakore achangobva kupfuura, murutivi nemhaka yokuti nhamba yeroorano yakadererawo.(Maererano nokuverengwa kwevanhu kuchangobva kuitwa, vanhu 5.1 pavanhu 1 000 voga voga vokuAmerica vakaroora uye 2,3 vakarambana.) Panguva imwe cheteyo, dzimwe nharaunda dzetsika dzinoita sedzinofunga kuti zvimiro zvemhuri zvegamuchidzanwa zvinoda kuponeswa—TikTok, somuenzaniso, inosimudzira upenyu. Vhidhiyo kana Republican Rhetoric Inopomera No-Fault Divorce Divorce, zvisinei, inogona kupa mukana wekufungazve zvimiro izvi nenzira ine hutano, sezvazvinoita.
"Pane nzira dzakawanda dzekutanga mhuri," Ona Gulanik, nyanzvi yezvepfungwa uye nyeredzi yeShowtime improv series Couples Therapy, akadaro mubvunzurudzo yeparunhare nguva pfupi yadarika."Murume nemudzimai mune imwe muchato inongova sarudzo."
Zvimwe zvezviratidziro zvepakutanga zvaipa mamwe marudzi emhuri.MuThe Golden Girls, iyo yakatanga muna 1985, kurambana kwaDorothy naStan kunotungamirira kugadziriro dzake itsva dzokugara. "Kate & Allie," yakatanga gore rakapfuura, inopa fungidziro yakanaka umo vakadzi vaviri vakarambana nevana vavo vanokwanisa kugovera West Village brownstone. "Kate & Allie," yakatanga gore rakapfuura, inopa fungidziro yakanaka umo vakadzi vaviri vakarambana nevana vavo vanokwanisa kugovera West Village brownstone.Kate naEllie, vakatanga gore rakapfuura, ifungidziro yakanaka umo vakadzi vaviri vakarambana nevana vavo vanogovana imba yese yeWest Village brownstone. Kate & Ally, iyo yakatanga gore rapfuura, ifungidziro yakanaka umo vakadzi vaviri vakarambana nevana vavo vanogovana imba yese yeWest Village brownstone.Munguva pfupi yapfuura muZvinhu Zvirinani uye Kupatsanura, vakadzi vakarambwa vanogona kurarama hupenyu hwakapfuma uye hune chinangwa vasingatsvage shamwari itsva.
MuZvinhu Zvirinani, izvo zvakapera kutanga kwegore rino, Pamela Adlon anotamba Sam, amai vasina murume uye mutambi wenyanzvi ane nhoroondo inofanana neyaAdlon.Nevanasikana vatatu vari kukura, boka reshamwari dzine simba, uye amai vari mhiri kwomugwagwa, upenyu hwaSam hwakanyanya kubatikana.
Kutungamira kumwaka wechitatu weshoo, anoyeuka achipindura mibvunzo kubva kune vezvenhau nezvekuti ndiani angave akabatanidzwa naSam, achisimbisa kutsunga kwaAdlon kusiya Sam asina kuroora.“Ipapo ndipo pandakaona kukosha kwazvakaita kuti ndirambe ndiri mugwara ndichifungisisa nezveupenyu hwangu uye hwemamwe madzimai mazhinji asina kumbovakazve mhuri dzavo,” akadaro.
Chokwadi ichi ndicho chimwe chezvipo zvikurusa zveterevhizheni - kugona kuratidza hupenyu hwedu kwatiri, kuvhura mukana wehutsva.Semuenzaniso, kupera kwe "The Split" kwakasimbisa hukama pakati paHannah Nicole Walker nemhuri yake pane kumusundidzira kune mumwe mutsva.
Morgan akadhirowa magumo maviri, imwe yairatidza nezveramangwana rerudo raHana."Asi chokwadi, pandakazviona, ndakarohwa nehana," akadaro.“Ndinofunga nezveshamwari dzangu dzose dzakarambana, uye nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero ndinodzokorora kutaura kwokuti: “Hauna kukwana kutozosvikira wava noukama hutsva.”
Morgan haapikisane nerudo, akatsanangura, uye kwete muchato.Akanga aine murume wake, munyori Jacob Krichefsky, kwemakore 22.Asi anotenda mune dzimwe mhando dzerudo, kudyidzana uye mhuri.
“Vanhu vanogara vachida magumo anofadza,” akadaro."Tiri kungochinja pfungwa yekuti magumo anofadza chii."
Nguva yekutumira: Zvita-16-2022